Episode 01-23 – Coming Out 2: Electric Boogaloo
Talking Messy about coming out as nontraditional. We talk about considerations for who and when to tell, and much more!
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Episode 01-22 – Toxic Masculinity with special guest Chris
A discussion about toxic masculinity with our special guest, Chris. What does it mean? Can there be masculinity without toxicity? What does toxic masculinity look like?
Episode 01-21 – Cougar-ing! With Jyl Johnson
As we are of a “certain age”, how could we skip over the topic of being a cougar?!
Episode 01-20- Appreciate your partner(s)!
We often talk about some heavy issues and things that may not be the “nicest”. This week’s episode focuses on the good stuff!
Episode 01-19 – DADT
We tackle don’t ask, don’t tell relationships in this week’s episode. Email us with your thoughts!
Episode 01-18 – Extra spicy, supersized, with all the fixings (& Jyl MF Johnson)!
Bad dates, we’ve all had them. Some are just worse than others. Join George & Sara and special guest, comedian/artist/hairdresser supreme Jyl Johnson as we share our cringe worthy experiences in this very supersized episode.
Episode 01-17-Bathroom habits
Not what you may be thinking! We’re tackling the toilet seat debate along with other bathroom specific habits.
Episode 01-15: Secrecy vs. Privacy
What does it mean to be a private person? How is being private different than being secretive? George & Sara define and discuss these concepts.
Episode 01-14- Special Episode: Talking Messy LIVE
Join George & Sara and their special guest, comedian Sondra Slade, as they discuss fighting fair at It’s Complicated OK (ICOK). ICOK is Tulsa’s first conference solely devoted to consensual nonmonogamy and kink.
Episode 01-13-Sex Toys!
We’re talking messy about the ins and outs of sex toys this week. PLUS, big announcement regarding registration for ICOK.
Episode 01-11-Clothing or Pockets, pockets, pockets
Running the gamut of clothing, beginning with the disparity of pockets in feminine clothing.
Episode 01-10 – Supersized! Body Image with Special Guest
Body image concerns abound in pretty much all humans. Join us, and our special guest Roderick, while we attempt to tackle this issue.
Episode 01-09- Boundaries
How do you set healthy boundaries? Where do boundaries come from? Are boundaries the same as rules? Let’s find out together!
Episode 01-08-Crushes
What do you do when you’re crushing on someone you don’t think you “should” be crushing on? We talk candidly about the ups & downs of crushes.
Episode 01-06: Consent
A great discussion about navigating consent in relationships, as well as respecting personal bubbles.
Episode 01-05-Communication
Communication! We all do it, but here are some tips and tricks on how to make your communication more effective.
Episode 01-04: Analog & Digital Dating
More discussion about dating behaviors such as getting stuck in the endless text loop, “dater-viewing”, and what questions work well in the getting to know you phase.
Episode 01-03- Ghosting and whatnot
We’re Talking Messy about all the bad dating habits and terminology this week!
